Monday, March 28, 2011

Hints of Past, Present, and Future

Once again I seem to have disappeared from the blogging world. After several years of blogging there is one thing that I have come to know: Time spent with family and friends is more important than any blog post that I could create. Time is such
a precious commodity
and I am striving to spend my time as wisely as possible.Last week I attended the funeral of a wonderful man. I listened as the speakers praised his life. Each acknowledged his devotion to his family, church, community, and country. They told of his attributes of kindness, charity, service, gratitude, and love. I reflected upon my own life. How do I want to be known? As a loving wife, a devoted mother, an adoring nonny, a kindhearted friend, someone who could make you laugh, a generous soul, a woman who knows God and whose words and actions reflect her religious beliefs, an inspiration, faithful, considerate, talented, appreciative, creative, giving, gracious. . . and the list continues. Did I even think to add "great blogger" to the list? The answer is, "No." Please don't misunderstand. I really do love blogging. It motivates me to learn and create and get out of my comfort zone. But, as with anything in life, when it becomes my only focus I become unbalanced and unhappy. And so as I enter into my fourth year of blogging I am determined to keep things in perspective. What does that mean? Well, just to name a few. . .It means that I will be a better steward of my time, talents, and energy. I will use my blog to document the things I make and do in my home instead of using my home to make a blog. I will cease doing "fluff" projects just for the sake of posting. I will try to refrain from comparing my home and blog to others. I will stop buying thrifted items merely because they will make for a great "before and after post."
Blogging can be a great blessing, but it can also be a bit of a curse. I am learning that the trick is to not allow blogging to become a bigger part of life than the life I am living and blogging about.
If you have endured my ramblings thus far I want you to know that I am ever appreciative of the time you spend here. You have supported me as I have weathered a few storms over the past year and I am thankful to you. I am humbled by you and am grateful for your influence. You inspire me and I am honored to be a small part of your life. Truly!
This photo will give you a hint as to why I took a break from blogging last week.My only daughter, who lives too far away, was in town. She and her hubby are pregnant with their first child; a girl. We spent the week planning, reminiscing, laughing, crying, loving, and attending baby showers. It was delightful!!! She left for home today and so to ease the pains of separation I will be cleaning up these exciting finds from the Habitat store, as well as picking and buying paint for a few projects.I am trying to prepare my home for an exciting event. I hope that you will join me in viewing the homes of several talented bloggers. My goal is to be able to tour each of these beautiful homes looking for inspiration and appreciating the gifts and talents that others have been given. The Parade of Homes will be a great source to gladden, excite, motivate and invigorate---as long as we resist to compare and compete. Mark your calendar and be prepared to be inspired!


Kathy @ Creative Home Expressions said...

As with anything, Joy, I think moderation is key. There are days I don't have any desire to even be on my computer. I agree, spending time with your family is oh so much more important. Congratulations on the new little one that will soon join your family!

Delle said...

I'm new to blogging and appreciate your words of wisdom!!! Congratulations on the upcoming baby - girls are great! (I have seven of them!!!)

Ceekay- Thinkin of Home said...

How exciting to have a new baby coming to the family. I think we all go through cycles with our blogging. We all must do what is best for us and our families.
Can't wait to see the home tours. I love looking at homes. BTW, I am inspired by what others make and create, but I don't NEED anything! So I enjoy from afar...and don't feel the pressure to do any of it myself if I don't want or need to!!

Future Mama said...

I completely agree! I can always tell when I have been a bit to involved with blogging, and not enough with life, when that stress creeps in!

Much love,
Future Mama

Anji Johnston said...

Let me start by saying CONGRATULATIONS' on becoming a Grandma! I'm sure you are thrilled! And thank you for a very endearing post. Made me stop and think. The greatest joy I get from blogging is not so much telling fellow bloggers what I have been up to and accomplished but taking the time to read posts like yours. Family should always come first no matter what.
I am so looking froward to 'the parade of homes'. I need a bit of inspiration after all the gloomy winter days we have had here in Virginia! When does it start!

momwhoknits said...

Just wanted to let you know your blog is great whenever or however often your time allows. I love that you put your family first it makes me want to read your blog even more.

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